Six Ways to Make People Like You.If you want people to like you...
1. Become genuinely interested in other people1) "Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two months becoming interested in other people that you can in two years be trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
People likes that other become interested or care in what they do, because that means that you are kind with other and you are going to be able that maybe help them if is necessary.
Also more and more people will want be around you because you are a good company, someone in who they can trust and all of those things. Other important thing is that you will get good friends, why? Because good people are looking for good people, so together will make a amazing friendship, looking for what is right.
2.Smile
1) "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2) "You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3) "It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends.
I think that when you show a smile to others you let them know that you are kind, even when you don't feel really good it's nice to smile, so you are smiling to everything that means that people will see that you are a person who can be confident and don't feel bad about anything.
3. Remember names
1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2. If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
It;s a excellent way in what people look that you are interesting in them, because the names are what defines us in the sense that names are what we have to identify us between all the people. All of us like when someone remember our names, that make us feel comfortable. You could start memorizing the names that people you don't know but that is near of you to beginning then when you have done you will see how good is can talk with someone knowing his/her name.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1) "If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, ne an attentive listener."
2) Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."
All the people like when are listened, that means that you are interested in what they are saying. Everyone loves that when is talking about anything others around them pay the enough attention and in this way you will give a good impression, letting others know how able you are to make feel others comfortable. Also if you are a good listener you will remember clearly what people told you, so in a future you can talk about what others told you, and that will be more good for you, is like giving you the double points with that people.
5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."
6. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)" Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
Everyone wants that others worry about them, some way to accomplish this is to make other people feel important like listen them because that means you care what they are saying.This help people to be with them emotionally. Usually the people that first you need to make feel important are your friends, your parents, brothers and sisters.
With these six ways to make people like you we can learn that all the people want attention. All of us like when someone around us is paying attention of what we are saying. Also when someone smiles us it's really nice because they are showing us that they have a good way to tell us that they are comfortable with us or make us feel comfortable. A good idea to make people like you is that all off the things they told you can be remembered by you in the future , that means you were really interested in their conversation.
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